Real Answers
You've got questions. UNRAVEL's got answers. Real ones.
Trying to navigate relationships is hard.
The dots stop connecting.
2 + 2 isn't adding up to 4 anymore.
Something isn't right.
Maybe you're worried it's abuse. Maybe it feels healthy, but something is missing. You've tried to figure it out but you can’t. Friends have tried to explain the behavior, but that hasn't helped, either.
UNRAVEL looks at how the behavior works, not just why the person is doing it. Most of the time they can't even tell you that.
Below you'll find answers to the most common questions people ask about relationships. And if you don't find your question — email me. I'll get you an answer.
*Know before you go: This isn't pop-psychology, buzzwords, or diagnosing your ex with narcissism. There's no moral validation or assigning blame. Despite that it might feel good for a moment, none of that is helpful. You deserve better.
Why do I feel this way?
You're always anxious, second-guessing yourself, or walking on eggshells. That confusion you feel? It's by design.
Why doesn't this feel right?
You love your partner, things are good, but something is missing. There's a word for this, and it's more common than you think.
Why do they do that?
They get angry over nothing, and nothing is ever their fault. You want answers, but you're asking the wrong questions.
Why can't I just decide?
Stay or leave. Try harder or give up. Either way, something is going to hurt. The question is which pain you're actually choosing.